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Send this post to your friends who are resisting social media…

If you have been watching ABC, or bought shoes from Zappos! lately – then you’ve been touched by social media.

You can bury your head in the sand - but social media will still be out there!

You can’t avoid it, don’t even try.   No doubt you’ve seen your kids messaging each other – their fingers moving faster than the speed of light?  And wasn’t that guy who created Facebook™ a young whippersnapper of 19 (now a 24 year old billionaire)? So one must ask oneself, “Seriously, how could a tool utilized in such crazy, time wasting ways be a useful form of communications?”  If you think social media (facebook, twitter, LinkedIn, MySpace, blogging, YouTube, etc.) is a waste of time, you are not alone.

But wait – there must be something to it when Facebook is bigger than the US (population wise)at 550 million users,  and worth more than Ford Motor Company.  When Twitter is so popular it grew 1400% just last year. Social media can be an extremely powerful tool.  Many very successful businesses have used it to:  connect with like minded others, let people know about their gifts, inform audiences of upcoming events, sell product, or just keep better in touch with friends.

Attracting the perfect clients...

So what is this social media thing?  In its simplest definition, social media uses online and mobile tools to communicate user generated content. And why is this important?  Well, its user driven.  That means you, and your potential clients, can drive the conversation.  And the result?  Connections with people that generate better information, better ideas, more directed sharing and if you are in sales, better leads.  We are telling corporations what we want (and your consumers can tell you what they want – saving you time and a lot of money).

What I like the most about social media is that it truly seems to reflect the authenticity and integrity of an individual or a business.  Very simply, people who try and use social media in the old style of  “sell, sell, sell”  become irrelevant and  ineffectual in this medium.  It is self-policing too, so people trying to abuse the system are often caught out and shut down immediately.  Those who operate within social mediums with authenticity, integrity, generosity and relevance begin to attract a large audience.  If you have a service or product to sell, or even information to give away, this can be a very good thing indeed!

I often say that social media “creates a false sense of familiarity.”  But this “false sense” can quickly turn into genuine friendship and powerful strategic business partnerships if you reach out beyond the screen.  Social media is its most effective when we reach out via phone or phone to actually connect with those we are connected to online.

Say you have a law practice.  You know your stuff, you’ve been successful through referral marketing, but would like a little more exposure.  Using the combination of blogging, twitter, facebook and some great downloadable e-material you generate, your business could explode into new markets and widen your influence base.  If you have something valuable to share, let social media help you do it

Maybe you are contemplating moving somewhere new? Through social media you can reach out and create relationships:  business mentors, partnerships, advisors, referrals – and even a clientele base, before you even step foot in your new city.

Do you have an event? Either a local workshop or global webinars or teleseminar?  Social media can help widen your circle of influence so that you can touch a lot more hearts, minds and souls!

Go ahead, dive in.  There is a reason that most of the people who jump into social media stay in.  Because it allows them to experience greater success, connection, increased business and simply better relationships.

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The Narcissism of Social Media

Social media can look a lot like this:

My story

I'm sorry - were you saying something?

My story,  my story, my story, my story, my story, mystory, my story, my story, my story, my story, mystory, my story, my story, my story, your story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, your story, my story, my story, my story, my story…

Did you catch that?

My story,  my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, your story, my story, my story, my story, my story, my story, your story, my story, my story, my story, my story…

And that’s the problem.  The narcissism on social media can run rampant.  And the thing is, the more you talk about yourself, the less people listen.

One of my favorite jokes goes like this:  “But enough about me, let’s talk about you.  What do you think of me?”

Facebook is terrible for this, of course.  Twitter has a few more Go-Givers, although in general the stream tends to be about the author, not the audience.

LinkedIn is a tricky number, because much of what you share on you profile is your expertise.  So it really is about you.  The thing to remember, when you are participating in conversations on LinkedIn (Groups, Answers and Updates) keep your ideal client Top Of Mind and formulate your communications as if you were answering their needs, their point of pain.

Updates:

Instead of:  “Read my latest blog: The Critical Manager http://wp.me/petQg-4y

Do something like:  “Do have you trouble with your employees? Have you considered it might be you? http://wp.me/petQg-4y

Group Discussions and Answers:

When responding to a group discussion, pay a wee bit of attention to the profile of the person who posted the discussion.  That will give you some clues as to if the discussion is based on a legitimate need of theirs (and if it is, might you be the answer to that need) or if the discussion is just another forum for them to discuss their expertise.  Listen!  Respond to their needs.

Tweetchats:

Tweetchats are an excellent place to showcase your knowledge.  I do it every Tuesday night at 6 PM, MST on my #LinkedInChat (Please join us).  And yes, I do post links to articles I have written.  And yes, I do regularly post tips on it as well.  But what really gets the conversation going is when I ask questions.  And then the participants start conversating amongst themselves.  And occasionally I can answer a question too.  Listening!  That’s what gets people communicating.

Facebook’s Wall

Do you spend more time posting to your wall, or commenting and “liking” other people’s posts.  Guess which one will build stronger relationships?  I automate my blog posts and foursquare updates to Facebook, and will occasionally ask a question I really need answered (Like who is a good local videographer, etc.) But when I started spending less time on posting, and more time on responding, that’s when the usefulness of Facebook increased for me.

Go-Giving

Finally, if you haven’t read it yet, please please please go and get Bob Burg and David Mann’s book “The Go-Giver” and “Go-Giver’s Sell More.”  It will change your life – or at least how you communicate.

I’d love to hear your suggestions as well!

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There are blessings in disasters – or what to do when your website gets hacked.

On Saturday my website was hacked.  It started with this email from some dude named “Info”. The subject line was:  “Are you OK?!?!”

The content read:

Hi, Im a hacker.

I dont have much time, but I saw that you remove the account that I created on your Cpanel, you know that I dont want to harm to your site.

I just want to have some space to park my domain.

But, if you annoy me, I annoy you too.

This is the first alarm.

If you dont pay attention to this alarm I will hack your site very terrible.

Well, besides having atrocious spelling and grammar skills, this guy just pissed me off!  So I went to my site:  www.LinkedIntoBusiness.com and sure enough, this lovely message came up:

Beware this message

(What happened – for those of you who understand what this means – is he went into my root file and deleted my CSS files, replacing them with this code – I think)

I freaked – and then got on Twitter.

With a little research, my friend @KurtScholle discovered the culprit’s email address was: sedghi.saeed@gmail.com (feel free to retaliate if you like) and said culprit had parked several icky sites in my hosting account @HostGator Particularly nefarious was the fact that he had set himself up to receive all my backups – eeeeeewww  (Thank goodness I never backed anything up!)

It was only a few hours after my site was hacked that people began letting me know that many of my links were broken. (Thanks @CourtneyEngle)

  1. So the first “blessing” was knowing people actually looked at my tweet stream and bio and were clicking onto my (now inoperable) site.  They love me, they really love me!
  2. The second blessing was the number of people who jumped in to help.  Here are a few screen shots of these amazing people!  My thanks go out to: @HammyHavoc @AlexResolutions @KathyJordan @EvolutionFiles @GrandmaMaryShow @RobbNovac @A2Hosting

  1. The third blessing were the hours my friends gave me to help me out.  Every one of them free of charge. A huge special thanks to Kurt Scholle of www.webasylum.com, Richard Wright of www.WrightComputerSolutions.com and Chris Cree of www.SuccessCREEations.com (I must add here, that it only took Chris 45 minutes to decipher and fix what was a rather sophisticated hack!)  BTW – these are not just friends who had nothing better to do on a Monday afternoon- these are consummate professionals – some of the best in their fields… just sayin’
  2. Blessing number four:  This took place a few days BEFORE my web guy was going to do a major overhaul on my website – so we didn’t lose any work.
  3. Blessing number five:  I hadn’t any merchant services or product active on the site .  In fact, all my product had to go through another site and another host www.inboundmarketingproducts.com
  4. Blessing number six:  I learned my lesson, and am here to share them with you!

Lessons learned:

  • Even if someone else creates, manages and hosts your site, acquaint yourself with the CPanel.  If I went into my CPanel more than once a semester, I would have caught the squatters earlier (like in May)
  • Make sure you use a trusted host (I use, and Chris Cree recommends Hostgator)
  • If you use a WordPress based site, make sure you upload the latest version (3.0)
  • DO NOT use the generic usernames (admin, etc)
  • USE A SOPHISTICATED PASSWORD.  This is what got me – I just used numbers and letters and the password was – well – kinda obvious.  Use a unique password for all your sites and sign-ins.  Use numbers, case sensitive letters, and special characters.  Do not use a version of your name, your pet’s name, or the domain name.  Better yet – use a password generator.
  • Cultivate friends who can help in these situations – and reach out to them.
  • BACK UP YOUR DATA – not just your computer data, but your website.  Almost all hosting sites have backup options.  Use them!

So my site isn’t still up to snuff, but things could have been worse – a lot worse.  What this showed me was I was being sloppy, relying too much on the knowledge of others, and not relying enough on my friends.  Now I know better.  I also know what an awesome resource we have in twitter!

If you’ve ever been hacked, and have some advice, please let us know!

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